I don't think that anyone would argue that many of their traits came directly from their parents. No breakthroughs there. I am sure you notice it in your everyday life. Perhaps it's how you talk, your sense of humor, how you cook, your music preferences...the list goes on and on.
What's interesting to me though are the inverse tendencies that are just as powerful as the direct tendencies we inherent from our parents. One example, growing up we were always late going places. Not just a little late every once in a while...always late, and sometimes hours late. I think as a results I have this inherent animosity towards being late. Not to the point that I am neurotic about it, and sure, I still get caught up from time to time and don't leave the house when I really should, but most of the time...I would much rather be ready early and get where I am going with time to spare. That being said, I still drive way too fast (like my dad) and I will delay folding laundry for as long as I can (like my mom).
What about you...do you have any reverse tendencies as a result of your childhood?
What's interesting to me though are the inverse tendencies that are just as powerful as the direct tendencies we inherent from our parents. One example, growing up we were always late going places. Not just a little late every once in a while...always late, and sometimes hours late. I think as a results I have this inherent animosity towards being late. Not to the point that I am neurotic about it, and sure, I still get caught up from time to time and don't leave the house when I really should, but most of the time...I would much rather be ready early and get where I am going with time to spare. That being said, I still drive way too fast (like my dad) and I will delay folding laundry for as long as I can (like my mom).
What about you...do you have any reverse tendencies as a result of your childhood?